婚姻的成全

今晚，酒楼餐厅的二楼显得格外热闹。一对新人的特制海报挂在入口处，礼堂里布置成梦幻主题，有粉白色玫瑰，蕾丝等等。在接待处的我，忙得不可开交。直到贵宾们入场完毕，才发觉新人入场仪式正要开始。

不顾一切形象，穿着高跟长裙，往舞台处奔跑。
入场完毕，前菜上桌。亲朋戚友开始交谈，用餐。

我最无奈的情况开始了。。
爸的大姐开始了：男朋友呢? 怎么没来呀?
我傻笑：他没空。
继续追问...我快速逃离现场。

但还没结束。。
另外的是多位中年安迪的对话。
：哇，新娘眼光真好。钓到了金龟婿！
这话后，大家眼睛对向了我。
妈开口了：听到了没? 眼睛要放大，看清。
我没表情，随口答：不用担心，我不结婚。自己养自己。

结婚? 我觉得自己还没到适婚年龄。过去真的有想过结婚，生小孩。
但现在并不想，
不是因为婚姻约束，也不是因为资金，而是家人。

婚姻最大威胁是家人。家人的反对，婚姻就不成立了吧?
不要说结婚，就连找一个男朋友都会吧?

我一直都认为只要和自己喜欢的人在一起就会幸福，但我错了。
我明白为何古代会常私奔了。

幸福也要身边的人成全。成全要有: 有钱，上进，体贴等等。那这成全永远都没有了.
人没十全十美，帅的不可靠，有钱的不爱我，体贴的没钱...

家人只会帮你选什么最好，而不是了解你心里的感受.
当我最难过或选择的时候，他们不会感受你的痛苦，只会要你跟随他们要的结果.

当家人要商量自己的事，我总是不说。

By Yukie=3

Cousin's Wedding @ Restaurant New Lagoon

After the Valentine's day blog post, now I will blog about my cousin's wedding! Their wedding's event is fall on Sunday but the morning activities I have miss it because I am busy study. So I only can attend the night wedding dinner which at Restaurant New Lagoon.

The sweet couple

I forgot how long they are been together but I know there must over few years already. They have pass through so many challenges and finally this good news happened. Congratulation! 

My parents 

During the wedding's dinner, I reach there about 5pm..why so early? because I need help them to do the reception. 

My responsibility is ticks and record the ang pao from the guests.

The venue's decoration is nice and sweet. I wish to have this kind of wedding. *Dreaming.

Their poster in the entrance

The entrance

Inside the hall

My ootd for that day. Super love this dress!

The Bride of the day

Before the wedding start, I busy in the reception counter. I am damn tired as the guests keep come non-stop. But finally it is pass. After done, I enjoy food and performance with my family.

During the wedding dinner. 

Finally I take photo with the Bride. She is very pretty.

Finally the wedding dinner is over! The dinner has run smoothly! thank you for everyone corporation.
Congratulation! Stay Sweet Forever!

By Yukie=3

Valentine's Day @ Hotel Equatorial, Malacca

Hello! Readers! I am back again. As I have been so long did not update my blog because I am busy sit for the final exam. Finally I have done all the subjects and enjoy my three weeks holiday only...I wonder why my uni only give us three weeks holiday, how nice if my uni can follow the local uni has about over 1 month holiday. Never mind! Let's back to this post's topic.

This blog post I will write about the Valentine's day during my exam weeks. My uni is damn cruel as they always set the exam weeks on the events like Chinese New Year, Valentine's day and my birthday. They always spoil my mood. This semester's exam is damn moody as they all clash many of my events such as Chinese New Year, Valentine's day, Chap Goh Mei and cousin's wedding. 

On the Valentine's day, I have a date. He gives me a little surprise to celebrate in the Hotel Equatorial, Malacca. He has book it the day before Valentine's day. The restaurant in Hotel Equatorial has offered a Valentine's candlelight dinner package for the couples.

The Menu

This is my first time enjoy so romantic dinner.

The table

 The Appetizer of the day will be Oyster.

I first time try it. Not bad! It is very fresh.

buns

They also got red wine for us.

Tuna

 The main course has three choices: Fish, Duck and beef.

I have chosen the fish 

My date chooses the beef 

 After that, the dessert served.

Tiramisu.

It is very nice!! 

 After dessert, it still have tea or coffee for us.

Me

And the special gift for girl. Chocolate and Flower

The dinner very romantic and the food are nice! It really is my first time to enjoy the candlelight dinner!

Thank you for the waiters' good services and my date.

The Valentine's gifts

Thank you for being my date on the Valentine's day. The surprise plan really make me surprise and make me feeling relax during the exam weeks. Thank you for everything!

Happy Valentine's day !!
Wish the couples are sweet forever and the single get the right person soon!

The End

By Yukie=3

The Family gathering during CNY

During Chinese New Year, my uncle family has invited us to his house for family gathering. 

On that day, I go there with my cousin early in the morning. and I have nothing to do on that day. My uncle does not provide us any wifi..After my aunt rejected my help, so we decide to play around with the photo shooting and going out for movie. 

I have learn to be a good photographer but I am...totally fail.

Some photo I taken.

cousin

Non-stop when see this.

After that, the food are ready! All this food prepared by my aunt. 

#ootd 

My bro when waiting for eat.

I think my grandpa will be the super happy guy because that time he told me he is super excited to wait the day come. He loves gathering with his family.

My grandpa with me

 After all are done, the first section will be lau sang! I have miss this section...because I need to be the camera girl...

The special sauces made by my aunt

The food

My uncle prepare food for himself..

Grandpa happy with the food

 That day, my aunt has prepare the three types of steamboat for us.

The satey celup

The tom yam with the BBQ

 and the one more is chicken soup steamboat which I did not take photo on it.*forgot

After eating, we taking photo again.

The cousin

The cousin again

My family

Grandparents

and the last is our group photo.

Thank you for everyone corporation when taking group photo.
My grandpa's wish is successful done!! thank you!
I hope that the family gathering can be held always in order to let we all keep in touch.
I appreciate it. Thank you!

By Yukie=3

Tea Break @ Theme Dessert Cafe, Jonker Walk

The week before Chinese New Year, I have go to Malacca again with the family for shopping. *To get my new shoe. In the early morning, we having our breakfast before going to Dataran Pahlawan, Malacca. 

The outfit of the day. Kinda weird. lol.
Before CNY, I have my new hair color! love love~

After shopping, we have our tea break at Theme's Dessert which located at Jonker Walk.

My cousin calls it as Hello Kitty's cafe because inside the cafe all with the Hello Kitty design. This cafe is quite small and not many people know it because their location is too low profile.

The entrance

their design

The menu. It is quite less choices.

After few minutes, the food have been serve.

The sweet 'Tang Shui' ordered by my cousin

The set menu soft drinks

My sis and me have ordered the set menu which cost below RM10.

The Omelet Set 

My sister's Sandwich

Starting to eat! 

Their food is super cute with the Hello Kitty's design. The taste of food just normal only.

Actually this cafe is not bad if you are a Hello Kitty Lovers. This cafe only suitable for tea break as their food is not enough full for me..Their price is normal as I think is still reasonable. Their cafe not so much of customers as we are the only one..But it is a nice experience to try it if you haven't go to a theme dessert cafe which cute design.

The End.

By Yukie=3